According to Secrets of The A Game “Women tend to have finely tuned antennae when it comes to sniffing out a guy’s weakness, almost to a fault”. So even before you keep approaching different types of women like for example at a social event you must check yourself to see if you have any of these three traits that if any woman sees during a conversation, she will find a way to leave you. Women make quick decision to see if they want to have a full on full on conversation with you and if they see any piece of these traits you should just consider yourself dead to them. Now, is our goal to be left behind and dead to them? Of course not! You want to become that Ultimate Conversationalist and be able to speak with any woman you meet. But first you have to get rid of these three things and your success rate will jump right off!
What does it mean to be needy? A needy guy are overly emotional and just say all of their feelings with a woman they just met and many times she never asked to hear it. When you are needy you have little to no confidence at all. And many times during any conversation women prefer men who are strong, confident and independent. Go ahead and ask any woman if she prefers men with little confidence or a good amount of confidence? It’s a simple answer. They prefer confidence. And that’s exactly the opposite of what the needy guy has. He needs a woman to prompt him up in all of his conversations. That’s wrong. The Point to becoming an Ultimate Conversationalist is to have confidence or begin to develop confidence so we can speak to anyone. And a quick tip to all the needy guys: Do Not Share Your Deepest Thoughts To people You Just Met. You will look creepy and your conversations will be more one-sided and no one will engage in communication with you.
But wait there are many women who like arrogant men and love having conversations with them? Why does that happen? Well, they deserve to spend the rest of their lives together because they share that same quality. So ts actually better if they get together because then we don’t have to deal with those types of human beings. But how can you know if your arrogant? What are the signs to this disgusting disease?
- Use condescending phrases and put-downs.
- Interrupt conversations … frequently.
- Avoid eye contact.
- Blame others.
- Have an answer for everything.
- Always one-up the other person.
- Flashes Material Items.
- Continual Bragging.
This is not a quality that people will flock to and in many occasions men have this attitude or they put on this attitude to impress the women during the conversation. But this is not the way to go! Its madness and stupid to fall into this trap. Women often look at how a man treats others to see his real personality. Even if you respect her during your talk but the rest you treat like garbage the only thing she will remember is your horrible attitude. So just go for humbleness which is the ultimate quality all women love to see. That’s the secret. Go and be humble in all of your conversations and the women will find you admirable.
3) Being Predictable
Women don’t like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he’ll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. So she will know all of his conversation starters and what he will say next. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Guys please don’t fall under this trap. Women will drop you like a ball once they see how predictable you are. You will be considered as the boring type and in their book, you’re the last person they want to see and talk to. They rather talk to the wall!
So if you fall under any category you must begin to change and once you do all the women will see you as a dashing man with an Ultimate Conversationalist Mindset.
Categories: Secrets to conversation